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한국인들이 공통적으로 회화에서 갖고 있는 문제점들을 알아보고, 회화에서 가장 많이 나타나는 문제점과 비결을 66개로 모아 해결책을 제시하고 있다. 회사,친구 집.레스토랑 등의 장소와 사람과 사귈 때,일할 때,의견을 주고받을 때,도움을 청하고 싶을 때, 강점을 표현할 때와 같은 상황에서 생길 수 있는 실수와 그에 따른 비결을 66개의 장을 통해 보여 주고 있다.

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1-친해지기
1.인사할 땐 과묵하지 말자...14
2.상대방이 질문할 때까지 기다리지 말자...16
3.대화가 끊기지 않게 하자...18
4.상대방을 배려하자...20
5.단어 뜻을 제대로 알아 두자...22

2-일하기
6.애매한 표현은 피하자...26
7.확실한 표현을 사용하자...28
8.무뚝뚝하게 도움을 요청하지 말자...30
9.주고받는 대화를 하자...32
10.대답을 너무 간단하게 하지 말자...34

3-식사하기
11.단어만 늘어 놓지 말자...38
12.소극적으로 돼버리지 말자...40
13.한마디만 하지 말자...42
14.대화에 잘 어울려보자...44
15.딱 잘라 말하지 말자...46
16.자기 주장을 분명히 말해 보자...48
17.반대 의견을 단호하게 말하지 말자...50

4-초대하기
18.충분히 인사를 주고받지...54
19.말을 부족하게 하지 말자...56
20.너무 간단하게 반응하지 말자...58
21.단조로운 표현만 하지 말자...60
22.감사를 충분히 전달하지...62
23.상대방의 사인을 눈치채자...64
24.Thank you만 연발하지 말자...66

5-쇼핑하기
25.갑자기 본론으로 들어가지 말자...70
26.의견을 말할 때 너무 주저하지 말자...72
27.약속을 정할 때 너무 앞서가지 말자...74
28.이도 저도 아닌 것은 피하자...76
29.자기 의견을 잘 말하자...78
30.표현을 빈약하게 하지 말자...80
31.남이 한 말을 그대로 반복만 하지 말자...82

6-선물 주고받기
32.같은 질문을 반복하지 말자...92
33.감정을 넣어 말하자...94
34.적당한 말을 찾자...96
35.말을 툭툭 뱉듯이 하지 말자...98
36.상대방의 마음을 알아주자...100
37.새로운 일을 눈치채자...102
38.풀어서 말해 보자...104

7-부탁하기
39.부탁하는 의도를 확실히 전달하자...108
40.너무 돌려서 말하지 말자...110
41.질문을 애매하게 하지 말자...112
42.상대방을 당황시키지 말자...114
43.부탁하는 법을 알아 두자...116
44.본심을 표현하자...118

8.도와 주기
45.먼저 친절을 베푸는 말을 하자...122
46.몰라요만 연발하지 말자...124
47.적극적으로 알려 주자...126
48.상대방의 시분을 고려하여 말하자...128
49.Sure만 연발하지 말자...130
50.괜히 혼자 발끈하지 말자...132

9-의견 주고받기
51.시비조로 말하지 말자...136
52.대답할 때 단조로움을 피하자...138
53.일방적으로 끊지 말자...140
54.무관심하게 말하지 말자..142
55.심하게 부정하지 말자...144

10-감정 표현하기
56.말을 너무 직설적으로 하지 말자...148
57.당황시키지 않는 말을 하자...150
58.놀랐다는 것을 표현하자...152
59.속어를 사용하지 말자...154
60.기쁨을 말로 표현하자...156
61.초점이 빗나가게 하지 맣자...158
62.상대방을 배려하는 말을 하자...160
63.상대방의 기분을 맞추는 말을 하자...162
64.설명을 단조롭게 하지 말자...164
65.상대방을 위로해 주는 말을 하자...166
66.상대방의 말에 맞장구를 쳐보자...168